Friday, December 28, 2012

Saying goodbye to 2012

So we survived 12/21/12- so far anyway! This time of year is always great for reflection on the past year and to make plans/set goals/make resolutions for next year!

Highlights this year- we sold my minivan (see previous post--Goodbye mini-van years!) Nate turned 16 and is working on his drivers license. Kelsey graduated from high school and completed her first semester of college! We took a great family vacation to California, (which included a detour to the Sequoia National Forest- amazing!) meeting up with my brother from Colorado to spend some "quality family time" together. Tones took the plunge and replaced his 10 year old Dodge truck with a new Toyota Tundra!

Things I have to look forward to next year: I have partnered with another doula who will share call with me just a few days a month to give me a chance to travel, see family, get outta town here and there, go camping, without having to stop doing doula work. We have two summer vacations planned this year-- a week in Destin, Florida and then a week in Colorado. I look forward to family time, seeing my kids continue to grow into amazing adults, and to re-connect with my husband, whom I happen to still like after almost 25 years together!

Sunday, July 1, 2012

California Road Trip 2012

I think this was our 10th family road trip.... all of them have been to California except for 2011 we went to Colorado instead. Having said goodbye to the mini van (aka Zoom Zoom, see previous post) we rented a Honda Odyssey from Hertz in Round Rock. Packed, ready to go, drove away a little after 6am... our first stop Albuquerque NM to hit the closest Trader Joe's! Stocked up, rested and we hit the road next day for Kernville Ca. That was a long day-- 13 hrs in the car, but worth it. We spent the day in the Sequoia National Forest checking out trees over ONE THOUSAND years old and big enough to stand in. Yes, I said stand in. Turn around. Multiple people. Serious. Kids loved it. Also hiked along the Kern River, a beautiful and breathtaking trail... most of us just dipped our feet in the melted snow... Kelsey took an actual (almost) skinny dip! Two nights there and it was time to hit the road again. Only 200 miles to HB! But that took us 5.5 hrs... thank you SoCal traffic. Ugh. Remembering things I DON'T miss there. Luckily Kelly had a glass of wine waiting for me. :) Spent a lovely two nights at their house, hanging out. Dinner at Rubio's Saturday night, fish tacos, yum! Sunday we converged at Grandpa Dave's for "car tours" and visiting. Delicious Mexican food dinner w/ the whole family... brother Mike, sis in law Karen, and kiddos, Kenzie, Amber and CJ. Moved into our favorite Travelodge right on the beach Sunday evening. Woke to sunshine, beach waves, and that wonderful ocean smell -- heaven.

Monday we enjoyed the downtown HB area-- with Mike and family. Sunshine, ocean breezes, digging a serious sand castle. Later, bonfire and hot dogs. Shut the beach down at 10pm and headed back to hotel to prepare for next big day at Universal Studios! (We had put Kelsey on the commuter train earlier in the day to visit her friend who was staying w/ grandparents in Oceanside- so it was only the 3 of us and the Szatkowski family to Universal.) Had a blast! New Transformers ride was AWESOME... we lucked out and enjoyed short lines all day-- longest one was 20 minutes. I'll take that! Shut the park down and found Tony Roma's in the Citiwalk outside Universal. Enjoyed a late but delicious dinner before heading home.

Wednesday-- we purposely had delayed our departure so I could have one last day on the beach and a day of "rest" before hitting the road. So we adjusted hotel and car rental stuff and enjoyed one last day in HB. I hit the beach early and enjoyed the sun, surf and sand. Kelsey was dropped off mid day and joined me. Tones and Nate ran a few errands (In and Out Burger was on Nate's wish list) and returned to eat lunch on the beach w/ us. By late afternoon, it was time to say goodbye to Kelly first, then Grandpa Dave. One last meal- delicious Porky's Pizza of HB - was a great way to wrap up our vacation. We hit Trader Joe's one last time (I think we had a total of 5 visits in 10 days) to stock up on snacks and necessities for the road trip home.

Left SoCal early -- was told morning traffic could be ugly so wanted to be well out of town before it hit. Pulled out of hotel at 5:45am and successfully beat any backups. 10 hours later we arrived in Deming NM for a quick overnight. Friday left early again-- all just ready to be home. Stopped in Fredicksburg Tx. for a quick shopping excursion and some Kuhl Frozen Yogurt. Fed and refreshed, we drove the last 1.5 hrs, missing Austin "traffic" (I have a whole new perspective on what TRAFFIC means) and arriving home about 7:30pm Texas time.

Of course, it was nice to be home, sleep in my own bed again. I know kids were ready to hang out with friends and probably had enough "quality family time." But I also  know Kelsey may choose not to do another family vacation again, this one could be our last with all four of us. So there was a part of me who didn't want to say goodbye to this one, who wanted just one more day.

This is the "park" in Lubbock... no swimming?

 
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Off to California Again!

 
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Kids, it's time to come out of the tree...

 
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Uhm, that is a really big tree. Sequoia National Park, Ca.

 
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Things are looking up!

 
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Picnic Spot at Trail of 100 Giants

 
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Playing along the Kern River. Makes me wonder what they are up to.

 
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Checking out Grampa Dave's birthday gift to himself...

 
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Good cousin time on the arch

 
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Favorite friends at our favorite fish taco spot- Rubios!

 
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On the agenda for the day: Throw Katelyn over shoulder like a sack of potatoes.

 
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Katelyn, Madison and Kelsey are serious Tye Dyers

 
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Am I really with these people?

 
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Or these?

 
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This must be where the short bus drops off in HB

 
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We are serious about our sand castles.

 
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Awesome HB sunset

 
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Can I stop digging NOW?

 
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How many grown men does it take to light a bonfire?

 
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We had a great day at Universal Studios Hollywood w/ the Szatkowski Clan

 
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We are the chickens too scared to hit up the House of Horrors.

 
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Last evening chilling with Grampa Dave!

 
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Monday, June 4, 2012

Goodbye Zoom Zoom

You might think we are saying goodbye to a family pet... instead I am saying goodbye to our minivan we have had the last 9 years... How silly to have emotions, sadness, doubt (was it really time?) over a car. But that car was literally a chapter in our lives- that has now passed. We bought it when the kids were 7/9 yrs old because we needed a car that easily held two of our kids, and 2 or more of other people's kids... and a couple dogs. We needed a vehicle to be able to go on camping trips with Camp Fire, across the country on summer road trips, and be able to bring a cooler, Nate's boogie board, and a hoard of stuff from Trader Joe's back to Texas. That car went places. California, Colorado, and all the states in between. The beach, the mountains, the desert. The Grand Canyon, Las Vegas, Roswell, Estes Park, Guadalupe Mountains/Carlsbad Caverns. In Texas alone, that car has been from El Paso to South Padre Island! That car held Camp Fire kids going camping, on field trips, and to sell Camp Fire Candy in downtown Austin. That car went through puberty with those kids! Kelsey learned to drive in that car, and took her first "real road trip" alone with friends to San Antonio/Six Flags in that car. We took Cody for his last car ride in that car.

Zoom Zoom was not just a car-- it was a scrapbook on wheels. It was full of momentos, memories, big and little moments in our lives. Silly things, sad things. We listened to many stories on CD in that car. We rocked out to many songs in that car.We talked about nothing and we talked about everything. We grew up.

Now my kids are 16/18-- Kelsey has her own car and doesn't have much interest in going anywhere with us. Nate is working on his drivers license and as soon as he gets that, I imagine there will be few trips together anymore. The van was just sitting there-- unused, but not unloved. We passed Zoom Zoom off to another family last night. Their kids are 2 and 4. I hope they have as many adventures in that car as we did.

And so we end-- The mini van years.